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The Women Who Go Savage for Bisexual Guys
Grace, 21, a writer and animator living in Massachusetts, is telling me about one of her fondest sexual memories with her boyfriend: the day her strap-on broke. “The strap busted in the middle of us having sex while I was trying to tighten it,” she says. “So, we paused and watched an episode of Bob’s Burgers while he sewed it back together with a needle and thread.”
She credits her boyfriend’s bisexuality as part of the reason he’s so nice, giving and game in the bedroom. “We apply toys, take turns existence penetrated and I realize I can talk to him about anything sex-related without him feeling favor his entire manhood is hanging off the edge of a cliff,” she tells me. “Outside of sex, our relationship is much more equal and open as well.”
Grace is part of an enthusiastic contingent of women who detect bisexuality to be a major turn-on in men — or non-monosexuality more generally, an umbrella term that includes pansexuality and reflects the idea that gender isn’t a binary. Women who are attracted to double attraction men consistently cite three main reaso
WHAT IS BISEXUALITY? WHO IS BISEXUAL?
By Kathy Labriola, Counselor/Nurse
WHAT IS BISEXUALITY?
There is a lot of confusion about the concept of bisexuality. Many people are % gay or lesbian, in other words they are sexually and emotionally attracted only to partners of the same sex. Others are completely heterosexual, bonding in sexual and intimate relationships only with people of another sex. But what about everybody else? A significant percentage of people do not fit neatly into either of these categories, because they experience sexual and feeling attractions and feelings for people of different genders at some point during their lives. For lack of a better designation, they are called bisexuals. Many people hate this term, for a variety of reasons, and opt for to call themselves “pansexual,” “non-preferential,” “sexually fluid,” “ambisexual,” or simply “queer.” This is particularly true for young people under the age of 40, who consider the term “bisexual” to be outdated and limiting, and do not identify with this lable at all. Since there is no consensus on this terminology an
For Bisexuality Visibility Night, I want to specifically address a question that bi+ people get all the time: Why did you approach out if youre already in a monogamous relationship?
I asked some friends and writers to participate me in talking about coming out in a monogamous and/or long phrase relationship, how it impacted us, and why it felt important to claim our bisexuality in those moments.
Meg: The first time I ever came out as bisexual, I had been married for about three years to a straight, cis gentleman, one that I remained married to for another eight years.
Mel: When I came out as bisexual two years ago, I was a working married mom in my 30s (I linger these things, and have recently even added a kid!). First I came out to my partner, then to my parents and my brother, and then to Facebook, because as mentioned above, I am in my 30s.
KaeLyn: I was out as bisexual before I got into my current long-term monogamous relationship, nearly 20 years ago. However, I persist to identify openly as bisexual and I have to come out all the time; I don’t get clocked as queer in most co
I'm a bisexual woman, and arranging 3-way dates is my favorite way to enjoy my sexuality
Weezy prides herself on the evidence she's never had a terrible threesome, even if there was a little bit of vomit involved one time.
"Like, I had a girl throw up once and she still was competent to boot and rally after we took care of her," Weezy, a media personality who hosts Fuse's television series "Sex Sells," told Insider.
The year-old also co-hosts the podcast "Whoreible Decisions," and says fans of the show know her as "the queen of threesomes."
As a double attraction woman, Weezy says she feels equally attracted to men and women, which is probably why she loves three-way dates that lead to three-way sex so much. She compared it to indulging in her two favorite foods at the same time.
"To know that I can hold that touch from a girl, where she's just as sensitive as me, and get the masculinity from a man, appreciate it's amazing. The guy always pays for dinner, but the girl always gives you kisses at the end of morning. It's perfect," Weezy told Insider.